Hoop Journey IV 
 
 Articles:
Volume 4, Number 18
A Fond Farewell In Oneida
Volume 4, Number 17
Sharing Family Healing in Milwaukee May 18, 2003
Volume 4, Number 16
Medicine Seeds Chicago Wellbriety Day
Volume 4, Number 15
Tears of Healing and Wellness Detroit, Michigan
Volume 4, Number 14
The Diversity of Wellbriety in Dayton
Volume 4, Number 13
Intertribal Cleveland, Cleveland's Hoop Journey Visit
Volume 4, Number 12
Tuscarora Indian Nation Near Niagara Falls May 8, 2003
Volume 4, Number 11
Honoring Handsome Lake in Allegany
Volume 4, Number 10
Tonawanda Nation Seneca Indian Community
Volume 4, Number 9
Onondaga Nation May 3, 2003
Volume 4, Number 8
Oneida Plans a Three-Day Sobriety Conference
Volume 4, Number 7
At Home in Boston
Volume 4, Number 6
Making Relatives Hoop Journey IV Visits Mystic, CT on April 19, 2003
Volume 4, Number 5
Hoop Journey IV Visits the Sacred September 11 Site
Volume 4, Number 4
Hoop Journey IV Visits the DC Area Saturday, April 12, 2003
Volume 4, Number 3
Hoop Journey IV—Healing Men and Children Begins in Cherokee, NC
Volume 4, Number 2
Lessons From the Old Culture: An Interview With Bill Iron Moccasin
Volume 4, Number 1
Sacred Hoop Journey IV: Healing Native Men and Children April–May 2003
Coordinators List
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Tears of Healing and Wellness
Detroit, Michigan
May 14,2003


Men of Detroit
The Sacred Hoop is 'retreated' from the Gathering at the end of the day by some of the spiritual warriors who watched over, protected, and joined with us in circles of healing at the American Indian Health Center today.

Tears of Healing and Wellness

The American Indian Health and Family Services of Southeast Michigan, Inc.

Minobinmaadziwin
(Anishnaabe —meaning ‘a good life')

Welcome to our Healing Center

Welcome, we're glad you're here! That's what the brochure at the reception table read, the first impression one gets of the community of people who gathered for today's Wellbriety event. It was a welcome in the Anishnaabe (Ojibway) language, too.

American Indian Health and Family Services Coordinator, Doug Hill welcomes everyone to the Wellbriety Day Event held in Detroit. Seated at the White Bison Product table is Amanda Manbeck, Field Coordinator for this Journey and member of the "Hoop Crew."

Don Coyhis of White Bison, Inc. began his presentation today by saying, "Those of uswho are in Recovery should not be walking with our heads down. You hold your head up and you be proud! Put your head up and just strut down the street." *Applause* "We need our children to see us—those who are in Recovery and working on it."

Taking Notes in Detriot
Don continued by sharing that last year he and others with White Bison had traveled 120,000 miles to different communities and he is hearing the words "wellness and sobriety," Wellbriety, more and more. People and communities are having gatherings and camp-outs to celebrate Recovery and Sobriety. He said, "White Bison is involved in the Native Communities for the National September Recovery Month. And we are asking you to pick a day or a week in September and have a gathering or a cook-out, or maybe a run, or whatever. Just come together and celebrate Wellbriety. Let us know about that activity at White Bison and we will publish it so that others can see this movement toward Recovery and Wellness. And we will send you a kit of free information to assist you. This will allow our children to see a new face on Recovery. Last year we had 47 Indian Communities and Tribes to write a proclamation to declare September as National Native Wellbriety Month. We're hoping this year to have over 100 communities join in that celebration."

Don Coyhis shares the information about the White Bison organization and The Sacred Hoop Journeys. People gathered to hear the 'Elder's Teachings' that have been incorporated into the resources and tools available thru White Bison.

As Don continued with his presentation, he shared about the upcoming Conference to be held in Albuquerque, NM from September 18-21. Don said, "Just as this is our fourth Journey, this will be our fourth Conference. We have held a conference after each Journey. This Conference will focus on Nation Building. We have joined with NANACOA, the National Association of Native American Children of Alcoholics. They will have speakers at our Conference as well. We had 750 attend our conference last year and expect 1,000 to attend this year." Come to Albuquerque this September to continue what you're experiencing on this Hoop Journey!

There were many people taking notes as Don continued with a presentation that highlights the teachings of the Elders and other sources that have been incorporated into the programs, resources, and tools available thru the White Bison organization. The Four Laws of Change , The Healthy Forest, The 7 Philosophies for a Native Man. All of these were well received and reviewed. Don explained how some of the handouts and teachings came about. He said, "For instance, in 1996 we had a gathering in the mountains of Colorado. There were about 2,000 Native Men gathered there. And we asked them, 'What is it that a man needs to know?' It took them almost three days and what they came up with was what you are seeing today as The Seven Philosophies of a Native American Man. This Journey is dedicated to Healing Native Men and Children and we're asking the men in the communities to take one of these booklets and start a Talking Circle and discuss these Philosophies. We have to teach ourselves and we have to teach our young men. And the best way for us to do that is to sit in those circles and start talking about that."

Making notes during Don's presentation—The Four Laws of Change.

Don also provided information about Well Nations Magazine. "It was the dream of Kevin Peniska, a Lakota from South Dakota. Kevin's wife told him that she would support him in that dream and now it's a nationally distributed magazine." Well Nations Magazine is all about Indian Wellness. It is a magazine that connects people. Check out Well Nations on the web at www.wellnations.com or call Kevin at (605) 348-9283 for a subscription. Don then continued, "We have our culture, we are doing our own videos, we are doctors, we are writers, we are healers. We know what is wrong in our communities and we know what to do to heal ourselves and our communities."

There was time for sharing then, and the microphone was passed around the room. Several people shared about being on the Good Red Road now. Some shared about the heartaches and struggles still going on in their families and communities due to substance abuse, violence, and the insanity that surrounds an unhealthy forest. Some spoke about crying—how they had as of yet, been unable to cry. Among those attending today were three beautiful women from the Passamaquoddy Nation. They had come all the way from the village of Pleasant Point (Sipayik) on the eastern tip of Maine to attend today's Wellbriety Gathering.

It Feels Good to Cry
Grace Davis walked up to the front of the room and slowly reached out to touch the Sacred Hoop of 100 Eagle Feathers. She alternated between her Native language and English as she shared with all of us. "I'm so thankful and happy that I'm able to be here. To be able to touch this Sacred Hoop. My brother and I were the first ones to get this Sacred Hoop. Don Coyhis invited us to his house long ago. He allowed my brother to sleep right next to the Hoop so it would help my brother. My brother was very sick because of that alcohol. (Grace is crying softly) Me too... I'm not an Angel... Far from it. I have a lot in my closet too. This man, Don, he came to our reservation in Passamaquoddy and he changed all that for me. I used to hate a lot of people too. And Don...he said, ‘go to the person that you hate the most and ask them for forgiveness and tell them you love them.' I went to that person and I told her that I loved her. And Don played a song—The Greatest Love of All—everybody was crying. There was a lot of healing that day."

Grace continues to stroke the feathers of the Sacred Hoop and continues to cry softly and to share. "After Don left, I prayed a lot. I teach the children in Passamaquoddy, first thru fourth grade. And I have wanted a Sacred Hoop for the children and for our reservation. I finally asked this man if he could make a Hoop for us. They are not Eagle Feathers. They are Turkey Feathers. We have over 100 Turkey Feathers on our Sacred Hoop. All the Children put Feathers on there. I told them that it wouldn't be sacred until all of them put their special blessings on it. The Elders also blessed the Hoop, and when they called us to come and get the Sacred Hoop, I went to a special island near us and I prayed and I thanked the Elders for their blessings. And when I was leaving the island this chant came to me. I started chanting. To me, that was the Sacred Hoop Chant. Many of the Children know it too now. We pray and bless our Sacred Hoop with that Chant."

Grace Davis (left), Margret M. (Maggie) Paul, (right), and Deanna Francis (inside circle, to Grace's left). These are the Passamaquoddy Women who came to help us let go of some of our pain and tears today. BEAUTIFUL!! Thank you!

Grace walks slowly from the Hoop and she picks up a Hand Drum. As she returns she is followed by Maggie Paul and Deanna Francis. She nears the Sacred Hoop and the people begin to stand. Everyone in the audience rises to their feet. No one asked us to stand. We realize that something special, something sacred and powerful is about to take place. Grace says, "When the children and I walk around this Hoop we sing this Chant."

As the women sing and cry it brings tears to the eyes of many standing in the audience. Sweet tears. "Letting go" tears. As the songs continue, the tears continue. One by one people from the audience make their way to the Sacred Hoop and cry. Some had shared earlier what they cry for: "My niece took her own life." My cousin was killed when he was drinking and driving." "My father never sobered up and never said he was sorry." "I lost my family because of my choices."

Many of us did not speak out loud what caused our pain, but we wanted to cry. We wanted to heal. As the women walked to the front of the room and cried out their pain, they were joined by other women and by men. We all have pain. The Passamaquoddy Women continued to sing. It seemed we cried the tears for generations of pain. In 2000, we had heard a young woman say, "I cry for the people who are afraid to cry—the people who don't yet know how to cry." Perhaps some of us cried for them—the ones who don't know how to cry.

There were many Spiritual Warriors at today's Gathering. We had seen some of them outside the American Indian Center when we arrived early this morning, tending to the Sacred Fire. They had been standing in the back of the room. When they heard the women crying, they instinctively knew what to do. No one had to tell them. They walked to the front of the room and stood close to the women in the circle. They began to sing. They sang a song of healing. Their voices joined the women's voices in a song of "letting go" and healing. The Sacred Medicine was lit and the smoke filled the room. The Feathers held by many of the people were being used to cleanse away the pain. The tears were wiped. This was a powerful, amazing, healing ceremony. We are honored to be here in this circle. It feels good to cry.

Retiring the Hoop
During the afternoon the documentary film Healing Native Women and Children was shown. Following the viewing of this video, there was another open mic session. Many people came up to share. Following this sharing the closing ceremony offered an opportunity for the people to offer tobacco to the Sacred Hoop of 100 Eagle Feathers as they prayed for the healing of individuals, family, community and nations. The Sacred Hoop was then carried out by some of the Spiritual Warriors who had sung during the morning healing circle around the Sacred Hoop. They were followed by the people of the community as they took the Hoop outside to be placed back into its box. The Hoop's strength comes from the prayers of the people over the years. It comes from all the people on all the journeys, at the conferences, at individual gatherings, each prayer giving strength to the Gifts of the Hoop—Healing, Hope, Unity, and Forgiving the Unforgiveable. Each prayer and each event gives strength to the Wellbriety Movement.

Some of the Keepers of the Sacred Fire of this American Indian Health Center Community,(right), watch as the Sacred Hoop of 100 Eagle Feathers is returned to it's box during the Closing Ceremony.

Thank You Minobinmaadziwin
The American Indian Health and Family Services of Southeast Michigan, Inc. has many programs in place for the people of this community. The vision of wellness at Minobinmaadziwin grew out of a need for healing in the Native American Community. Native people have suffered cultural deterioration, countless health crises, and environmental contamination. The Staff at the center is dedicated to the physical, emotional, cultural, environmental, and spiritual health of the Native American Community. Spiritual Leaders from diverse Native communities are often invited to the Healing Center to share their gifts, beliefs and wisdom, Helping People Help Themselves.

The programs at Minobinmaadziwin include:
Family Social Night
Alcoholics Anonymous
Dreamseekers Youth Program
Women's ­ Men's ­ Children's ­ Elders' - Talking Circles
Living with Diabetes
Traditional Use of Tobacco
Youth Theatre Project
Traditional Healing
Special Events ­ Community Gatherings and Workshops.

Lucy Harrison, Executive Director of the American Indian Health and Family Services of Detroit, holds the Miniature Sacred Hoop presented to this Center in appreciation of their dedication to the community and the efforts they had shown in coordinating today's Wellbriety Gathering.

All of us at White Bison are greatly honored to have come into the Detroit Indian Community and to have shared with you, experiencing your own dream and reality of healing and Wellbriety. We also thank the Passamaquoddy women who gave so much to this Gathering.

Woliwon!
Migwetch!

Vette Middleton
Richard Simonelli

   
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